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How Thinking Robs Us From Achieving Our Goals
Overthinking is not a strategy. It’s a delay tactic in disguise.
There’s a reason Nike’s slogan is “Just Do It.” It’s not “Think About It” or “Overanalyze It” or “Plan It Perfectly Before Trying.”
Because if we’re honest with ourselves, we already know what we need to do.
And yet, we stall. We hesitate. We ruminate. We pretend that all this mental gymnastics is progress, when in reality, it’s just a comfortable way of standing still.
I work in real estate. And let me tell you — this industry is brutal for overthinkers. Every deal you hesitate on, someone else is already halfway to closing. Every call you delay because you’re “not sure what to say” is a potential sale lost to someone who just dialed the number.
I also run. Not metaphorically — literally. When I run, something interesting happens: my body can keep going far longer than I expect… unless my mind interrupts. The moment I start thinking — about the distance left, the pain in my leg, the heat, the sweat — I slow down. Sometimes I stop altogether.
It’s not my body that gives up. It’s my thoughts.
This is the great paradox of thinking: it’s both the source of our greatest power… and our most subtle form of sabotage.
